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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 22 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (5 children)

Poll question for Becci

How effective do you think downvoting is? A. Very B. Somewhat C. Fucking useless

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago

😂😂

I wish I wasn’t blocked so I could send her polls. Thoughts on cheating, thoughts on people who use filters and lie, thoughts on people who deny getting very obvious work done, thoughts on exploiting children for content.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Hahaha! Becci is a tool, such a fraud. pretending to be woke and meanwhile supporting a grifter. Becci's insecurity is glaring. Painfully so.

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I saw the artist replied to a post that 🐦 did not cheat. So is that a technical answer since I still believe that they have been separated LONG before the announcement. So she’s made her way through the loophole and therefore, any accountability.

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[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

😂😂 ☠️

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 20 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

That ONE downvote. Such a warrior. Moving mountains 🤣 glad to know somebody is watching. The Reddit sub is shut down. They got what they wanted, but they just can’t stay away. They need us. Losers.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Shut one down only to have 5 created ✌️

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Can’t stop won’t stop ✌️ I’m like a freight train and won’t stop lifting the veil off these grifting, entitled, privileged & wealthy influencers. Becci this is for you: how do you sleep at night endorsing 🐦? You’re her last choice, we all see it. The sooner you accept that the better off your soul will be 😉

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

She uses EVERY friend to get what she wants and then ditches them. EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. You’re just the “pick me” bootlicker she’s been looking for. And if it’s NK doing this. She’s her own psychopath. Even half her family thinks she’s a nutcase. They’re even in these subs dishing on the quacks. Lots of clues showing so ;) and they’re all supporting Shame

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Someone’s in here very busy downvoting still, guess they’re bored on this rainy Sunday

[–] curious_walriss_888@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago

Please take my upvotes in response to the downvotes!

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[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

We are back up and running

[–] Lisamarie@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 weeks ago

Can someone add me to the new sub, please? Thanks, my Reddit name is Healthy-Abroad-4069.

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[–] VirgoSnarker@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I’m very stoned so forgive me if this makes no sense, but I was just thinking about the rumour that she’s going to be on Amazing Race Canada.. maybe her partner on the show is Cagla? And they’ll try to spin it that they’re just friends and fall in love on that show?

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

This will be amusing....this is right from the application LOL ! She's neither.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago

I look forward to seeing her cry and trot like a horse if this is true.

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[–] Notsofaithful@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I can definitely see that being her story. I’m pretty sure the rumour came from Cagla. Word is they spilled it in the locker room. Does anyone know when the show films?

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[–] Honey_Lemon1105@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

What is going on with these filters? Honestly, why bother posting videos nearly naked if you’re just going to filter your body any way?

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago

The filters are very obvious. Like you said, why bother posting? She's a fraud.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago

Is the shower door melting into her leg or is her leg melted into the shower door?

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

She's not inclusive of all women.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Yikes. Posting something like this with a non-bionary partner is so tone deaf

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

That seems like a very transphobic message in this day and age.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 weeks ago

I hope someone sent her some hate about this

Why would C want to be with someone like her. Like imagine cheating with an absolute braindead idiot when your spouse actually seemed like an intelligent woman.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 weeks ago

Yo this is sooooo incredibly ignorant, considering her company as of late 😮‍💨 wonder if C is picking up on how dense our little birdie actually is

[–] No_really_why@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Not defending her, but it’s a quote from f.r.i.e.n.d.s - she prob didn’t even think about how it’s perceived

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago

That’s her privilege. She can say and do as she pleases. Even shuts people up if you call attention to it.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago

🙄 She's back to body shaming.

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