this post was submitted on 26 Feb 2026
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In a group, it makes sense. You want to get someone’s attention in a sea of others all messaging back and forth and make sure they know you’re talking to them, in particular.

But when it’s just you and me…WHY ARE YOU TAGGING ME?! This is a chat with just you and me. There is zero reason to, in effect, yell to call out to me to get my attention.

Yeah and that was how my weekend went.

Hey @you! Yeah, you! What are your plans for this upcoming week?

And I blame companies like Microsoft for enabling this. Why is this even a feature in an individual chat? Who realistically would use this in a meaningful way?

On the help desk, it’s always this one team that does this. I am messaging you already from the help desk email. Why does my direct email need to be CC’d as well? I am clearly getting the emails from you as I am responding back to you, aren’t I? I remove my email from the list and these fucking morons add it back. It was removed for a reason. Leave it off! I don’t need your duplicate emails. This guy went above and beyond today by figuring out it was me because I intentionally left my name off knowing how he is. But these are the same people who think they need to CC every fucking person they’ve ever talked to on a ticket about them needing their password reset…I am not kidding. There are 15 people CC’d on this ticket he submitted.

And he’s supposed to be an engineer……….

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Lol I switched teams at work for administrative reasons only. I don't interact with 98% of the work my team does but rather everything I do is just on me...

And the new team is wonderful but they were like "We gotta add you to the email list."

I used to only get emails relevant to me. Like thirty to fifty emails a week. Now I get about 200 to 300 a day. Of course I configured my inbox so I basically don't see them, but I still get new emails from people outside the company added to the list.

All very good people, heed you, better than my last team in most ways, but also determined to fill my inbox.

[–] Alice@hilariouschaos.com 2 points 1 day ago

Yea it is pretty annoying