Was bored so...
Hey dude. Letting you know someone in the queer platonic group chat (the one you left after Kai’s alter made some acephobic comments, which he apologized for later btw :/) said they found receipts on your twitter of you liking a James Charles tweet which is really,, yikes.
Hey dude. Letting you know someone in the queer platonic group chat (the one you left after Kai’s alter made some comments that were perceived as being acephobic, which he apologized for later btw :/) said they found receipts on your twitter of you liking a James Charles tweet, which I think a lot of people are uncomfortable with.
Also Rainbow said you were tweeting on ur Steven universe roleplay account that were gonna rewatch ATLA which is like a really transphobic and racist and sexist show
Also Rainbow said you were tweeting on ur Steven universe roleplay account that were gonna rewatch ATLA which the community has agreed doesn't align with our values as it's perceived to be transphobic, racist and sexist.
and you know how Ash feels about even if they won’t say anything about it bc of their anxiety ,,,
and I'd invite you to consider how Ash may feel about it though they may not wish to say anything due to their anxiety.
idk dude I just wanted to let you know. I know Ash can be biphobic sometimes but they also live in an apartment and their parents are divorced so they have ptsd from it :////
idk dude I just wanted to let you know. I acknowledge that we've considered Ash's behavior unacceptable sometimes but they also live in an apartment and their parents are divorced so they have ptsd from it :////
I think Ash might write a callout but me and Rainbow are trying to calm them down just be aware and maybe stop being toxic
I think Ash might write a callout but me and Rainbow are trying to calm them down just giving you the opportunity to consider this and if your conduct aligns with the values of the community.
Less accusatory tone. Less "shoulding". Less expressing things as universal truths and instead, framing the concerns as coming from a place of building a community with certain values (and everyone is free to build whatever kind of community they want - and everyone is free to either join and follow that community or not). Taking ownership of one's own narrative about a situation, instead of trying to pass it off as an objective truth. Also more respect for boundaries. People's feelings are their business and you can invite others to take them into consideration but demanding others walk on eggshells is crossing a boundary - which tends to lead to resentment sooner or later (this is how communities and people get called "toxic"). If someone doesn't respond to an invitation the way you can at least level with, don't engage with them. And I say "level with" because bless humans, they figured out a way to make boundary-keeping problematic too ("if you don't 100% do everything the way I want, I'm dropping you.... bawww why is there such a loneliness epidemic").
