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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

There is no bloody way her know it all husband didn’t know this.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 2 points 13 minutes ago

Playing stupid or just stupid?

She was trying to get something for free, either an aftermarket starter or a new car, but instead she got free advice that’s in the manual that came with her car

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 7 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

There’s a big lump on her lip

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 hours ago

Love to see that filler migration!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 6 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Her lips are ridiculous irl. I saw the side profile and they protruded out like a ducks bill.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

What about the rest of her? Overusing the skinny filters or is she actually that small these days?

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 hour ago

She was behind the wall in the self checkout so I really saw her shoulder/neck up.

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 9 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Looks like bird got fresh fillers. And won’t say why she’s resizing her ring because of 💉. But love yourself as you are, and love your sometimes disappearing stretch marks because of filters everyone.

Fraud.

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 9 points 18 hours ago

She saw her real face on the tv screen. Time for a bump!

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Is she actually fucking kidding?!!! Bitch be so for real 🤯🤯🤯

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not to mention having a relaxing bath in the middle of the day…with her kid(s) home…? Like, how?

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 6 points 20 hours ago

She's been doing this for years and years, lots of us saw her old blog and social media. Her kids have ALWAYS come second (or third, fourth fifth...).

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 day ago

Excuse you!!! it’s been a week since she had an spa day in Mexico, she is so deserving of another restful me day!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 day ago

Spending 6 hrs getting her hair done and watching endless movies is truly exhausting.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Feeling like a candy cane, looking like a tool. Another fugly sweater. Why does she keep hiding her left hand?

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Even filtered and photoshopped —to the extreme —she's not the looker she thinks she is. She has the worst taste and style, ever. This sweater is hideous. Are those shoelaces holding the Biway shaker-knit together? Her jewelry clashes and makes no style sense. The stick-on nails are fug and thin. They look like potatos chips.. The sandstone wash denim isn't working for her. They look like Shane's unwashed jeans... scented with fecal matter, urine, and laziness. The worst is the shrunken filtered head. Lady, you ain't cute. Go away, no one actually likes you.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The Biway reference sent me back in time!

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 5 points 19 hours ago

They sold sweaters like this. 😄

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Ahhhh. The completely natural look of jamming your hand into your pocket like this…..so relaxed and casual…..

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It looks like she is digging in there trying to get a good scratch on the old cooch!

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 day ago

Flapping the apron belly..

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 day ago

Lmfao. So posed.... So sad....

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Why doesn’t she put a tank underneath? I know she’s just at home but why is she walking around in a partially open cardigan with nothing underneath, probably not even a bra knowing her

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 day ago

Woooow. Always the affiliates... Ew

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Well Shame must be around because surely he wouldn’t leave home without these gems.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 day ago (4 children)

On a side note, does anyone else feel like little L talks like a fairy tale cartoon character? My kids are in their late teens so I may be off here, but I just feel like Nana K and Birdshit have raised a cartoon character who speaks like she’s in a perpetual state of fantasy.

[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My niece is the same age as L. I can have normal conversations with her, and she doesn’t talk in a fantasy manner at ALL. she tells me about school, dance and even her girl drama at school 😂

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 3 points 20 hours ago

Yeah, kids this age in my family can have regular, back and forth conversation, but it helps that the adults actually engage, listen and care enough to have those conversations with them.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago

Agreed. They’re showing me to talk to my kid like she’s a real person as she gets older, I gotta do the opposite of everything that family has done to raise L.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

They all talk like this. They’re all in la la land. The way they’ve failed this poor child is quite sad.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 day ago

You’re right! The 19yr old sounds like she’s 5. It’s weird.

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 day ago

You're not wrong.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 day ago

Hahahahahaha I actually cackled out loud 😂

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Too full of herself and her filtered face to notice the stain front and center on her dress

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 day ago

Look at that stomach. Proof she uses body filters in her bathroom mirror. That's not a flat belly.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 days ago

Is it greasy butter or was she wrapping Christmas presents and got a little too excited? We will never know!

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 days ago

Thigh sweat

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 4 days ago (3 children)

There is really something wrong with her.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 days ago

Sexualizes EVERYTHING.

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 days ago

As IF she actually wraps the gifts. The very thought is HILARIOUS!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 10 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (5 children)
[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 9 points 3 days ago

Weird because in the red dress her belly is big. Shapeshifter

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 days ago

Blatant body check for Miss Body Positivr

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