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[–] sramder@lemmy.world 29 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I really feel like the audio mixes are not intended for regular stereo speakers anymore… I pull a lot of soundtracks out in audacity for the sake of making ringtones and I almost never see a clean center channel… logically this should be dialogue and maybe some extra effects when they would be overwhelming, like an explosion, etc. but that’s not what I see.

I’m reminded of comments regarding Tenet where Nolan said something like “… you mess with the picture and nobody cares, you mess with the audio and people loose their minds.”

Hummmmmm 🤔

[–] Blackmist@feddit.uk 21 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Don't worry. I've got a decent surround setup and I still can't hear shit. They just don't enunciate like the theatre trained actors of the past.

[–] sramder@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

Another solid point.

This feels like something a Python ninja could turn into a real cool visualization. Unfortunately I’m a python janitor.

[–] Steve@communick.news 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Do you have trouble understanding people in the real world?
How oftin?

[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

turns up center speaker to +15dB manually dialogue is now at a reasonable volume

What is this madness? The worst part is forgetting you did that.

[–] Blackmist@feddit.uk 2 points 2 months ago

Yeah, I did tweak mine as well tbh. Only by about 5 or so. Makes it a little better, but I do like to be able to see the words.

I just wish we had adaptive brightness for the subs. Big white text is fine until you're watching a really dark movie and now all you can see is subs at the same brightness as the sun.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

And you are correct. It's also one of those mainly US things. In other languages it's far more balanced with voices.

[–] sramder@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Interesting… not to be a jerk, but now I want to compare foreign language films with foreign language dubs.

It would make sense that the dubs don’t really have an effects heavy mix simply because it would be more work.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Indeed, this conclusion is that they are being remixed for Germany (of course not always).

We don't like (added missing word lol) being able to understand voices then getting deaf from the next action sequence.

[–] sramder@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Not the wurst thing I’ve heard this week ;-)

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

There's a lot of other issues, especially with newer content, but I have found that watching movies with headphones helps.

Over the summer we use window AC units which are quite loud, so we finally decided to ignore our expensive speakers and I bought a cheap headphone amplifier with 4 independently controlled outputs, plus some Bluetooth adapters for when they are needed.

The downside is that our ADHD friends like to be able to talk during movies and the setup makes that difficult. But other than that it's great.

[–] sramder@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

It’s hard to beat a wire for realtime sound 🤓 I’ve been doing the same lately. It’s amazing how much a little bit of white noise makes.

I saw a paper years ago that attributed the accelerated cognitive decline in old age to hearing loss. Really interesting and sad, and after trying to convince my dad to try a hearing aid… I can definitely see that being a factor.

[–] otacon239@lemmy.world 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I’m the opposite. Anything that overlays on the screen is actively frustrating to me. I’ll deal with it for foreign film, but for English, I always turn them off, even if they’re defaulted on.

[–] Flamekebab@piefed.social 9 points 2 months ago

I compulsively read so if I have subtitles on I end up splitting my focus and don't enjoy the visual spectacle.

[–] Steve@communick.news 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Apparently this isn't an autism thing any more. It's a pervasive problem lots of people are having in the last 10 years or so.

I do have auditory processing problems, and frequently misshear people in the real world. But practically never when watching things, even Nolan films. I literally don't understand how more than half of people report needing subtitles on full time. I'd love to find somone offline who has this problem, and watch something with them to try to experience what they are.

[–] Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If you don't understand how it feels to need subtitles, try listening to a yanny/laurel video and see if you're able to hear both.

For us folks with auditory processing disorders, it's like the rest of the world hears yanny while we hear laurel. Without subtitles, we are simply incapable of parsing the sound as yanny.

[–] Steve@communick.news 1 points 2 months ago

I heard yammy, not yanny, every time. Which at the end of the video seems to be wrong. I did hear laurel when it was pitched down.

But that doesn't really help what I'm saying, because I'm not listening to your speakers in your room with you.

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I've been to the theatre a few times with the wife to see some musicals. I literally have no fucking clue what's being said or sung. Its all just noise while people prance about on stage to me.

I do enjoy it but I feel like a dog watching TV with its owner or something. I end up just watching everything else instead, watching for cues from the orchestra at the bottom, and seeing if I can see the stage hands and which pulleys work which props.

[–] BambiDiego@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

I... I just... You're right....

I'm a dog watching TV.

I can finally explain it to my wife.

[–] ThatGuyNamedZeus@feddit.org 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

for me if a character speaks with certain accents I have trouble making out what he or she is saying.

other times there's lots of noise in a scene and with my partial hearing loss I wouldn't have a prayer of hearing anything the actors and actresses are saying.

[–] Medic8teMe@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 months ago

My mom back in the day was all about Coronation Street. We're Canadian though and she was not good with accents. Her answer turn the TV up... A lot. Usually when the reruns were on on Sunday mornings at about 8:00 a.m. brutal as a teenager

[–] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I don't mind subtitles when watching non-English media, but I find they ruin English language media for me.

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I find it enhances it for me, since it's easy to miss what people are saying.

[–] krooklochurm@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Unless the subtitles don't match the audio in which case I become enraged and I have to shum to calm down.

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Oh yeah, that's unbearable! Better to have them off than deal with that!

[–] krooklochurm@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Exactly! Shumming is the only thing that calms me down when that happens.

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

googles "shumming," wishes he hadn't

[–] krooklochurm@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 months ago

Another kind stranger taught me that word.

Im going to use it until it stops being funny to me.

[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I completely agree. Cinematographers spend huge effort to frame things in a scene in a certain way. Shots that only last 2s are thought about for hours to figure out exactly how to frame things, where the actors should be standing, where they should be looking, what's in the background, what's in the foreground, etc. When there are words on screen it messes all that up. Even if you don't read the words, they interfere with the picture. If you do read the words you're looking away from the picture.

When you're reading the words, you're also not reading the actors' expressions. Sometimes you miss key things that way, because a subtle glance or gesture from an actor can indicate they're lying, or they're nervous, or they're hiding something.

I really think that people who use subtitles should try to learn to develop their listening skills so they don't need them. They're really missing out on a lot by having those subtitles on. Sure, some people have hearing problems or other disabilities. But, people who don't should learn to do without them because it will enhance the experience greatly.

[–] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 months ago

I hear what you're saying, but it's a different problem for me. If the dialog is in English, then I'm hearing it and reading it. In fact, I'm usually reading it right before hearing it. I can't ignore/tune out either the written or spoken dialog. This completely breaks immersion for me. If the spoken language is something I don't understand, then I have no trouble tuning it out in favor if the subtitles. Dubbed English is actually more immersion-breaking for me (non-animated media).

[–] EmilyIsTrans@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 months ago

I watched "We're all going to the worlds fair" without subtitles and had absolutely no idea what was going on. I think I understood maybe 10 lines of dialogue throughout the entire movie. I read the wikipedia synopsis afterwards and it's a shame I didn't understand it because I think I would have really liked it :(

[–] Metz@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

That's not a autismus thing. Basically everybody has this problem nowadays. https://youtu.be/VYJtb2YXae8

[–] verdigris@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Best way to make it better is to not use subtitles... Although some speaker setups make it so much worse

[–] nul9o9@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 months ago

I hear speaker set ups that have a proper center channel makes spoken audio clearer.

[–] scrambledeggs@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Same but I also have watched stuff at other people's place and realized some people don't invest in speakers at all. Makes a huge difference.

[–] TransDesiTrekkie@startrek.website 3 points 2 months ago

I always need subtitles when I watch anything

[–] Ellvix@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Thanks for this... I'm doing a presentation on different disabilities and accommodations, and this will help make my point that accommodations tend to help everyone