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They literally don't know they were born (piefed.social)
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We’ve been an Xbox household forever, but recently I stopped paying for Game Pass due to the price increases. Last night my daughter was complaining that there was “nothing to play”.

There are 416 owned games available for download on that Series X which have been accumulated over the years through purchases or Xbox Live Gold or whatever, and she’s barely scratched the surface of them.

For the total life of my PS1 ownership when I was her age, I owned 5 games.

“In my day…”, etc etc

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[–] Bougie_Birdie@piefed.blahaj.zone 100 points 1 month ago (4 children)

This sounds like analysis paralysis. If you have 5 games, it's easy to select one. If you have 416, it's difficult to select one.

I've often found that the more options I have, the more difficult it is to come to a decision. And when you think about "what game should I play," it sounds like a silly problem to have. But when you extend it to other problems in life, like "what should I have for dinner," then you see it start to cause some pretty serious problems.

Lately I think I spend more time trying to decide what to play than I do playing games. Then I'm not always successful in making a decision, or might run out of time, and then I don't play any games. Following the same reasoning, sometimes I don't eat dinner.

If you start to notice this is becoming an actual problem, the good news is there are tools and techniques that can help you make a decision. About a thousand of them. Good luck picking one.

[–] Quicky@piefed.social 26 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This is definitely part of it. When we had Game Pass, which would add 3 or 4 new games a week, the kids would spend their time trying them out to see if they liked them. Games that had been on the service for a while got ignored, as they weren’t presented as “new”.

That was one of the beauties of Game Pass to be honest, in that the kids would try out whatever was released that week, whether it was AAA or a small indie, and generally they preferred the novelties of the indies.

Now, with just one huge list of older games, they’ve got that paralysis.

[–] ButteryMonkey@piefed.social 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You could download three random games from your list and present them the same way as though they were new? Think that would be enough? I mean idk how Xbox is laid out, but I assume new games show up on the Home Screen which is how they access the new games of the month or whatever, right?

[–] Quicky@piefed.social 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yes, it’s a good idea, but in the evenings I’m too busy flicking through Netflix complaining that there’s nothing to watch.

[–] orygin@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago

Ah! In my days we only had one VHS with 5min of the beginning of the movie missing. Kids these days 😮‍💨
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[–] Ulrich@feddit.org 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

About a thousand of them. Good luck picking one.

🤣

[–] toynbee@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

I see what you did there.

[–] bollybing@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 month ago

Can you pick one for me please?

[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 24 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

You probably owned 5 games that you personally were actually interested in.

Until 2024 I was still subbed to Amazon Prime. Their Prime Gaming (Shipping and the Twitch Prime sub were the draw I would never pay for Prime Gaming) campaign throws a fuck ton of games at you constantly. A lot of good games too. Keys for GOG/EGS,/their own launcher/some shitty pixel hunting adventure games website.

I also redeem the EGS weekly free game(s) most weeks. I miss a few.

There's 500 games in my Heroic Games Launcher list combined. I've played 2 of them.

[–] yakko@feddit.uk 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Can relate. Our home server has every single NDS ROM and several thousands of other games, that will all play without ads on my kid's phone or laptop, but he will go straight to the shitty browser games and feel totally bereft without them.

[–] RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

To be fair, playing a DS game with touch screen buttons feels pretty bad compared to playing Fruit Ninja or whatever that was designed specifically for phone touch controls.

[–] yakko@feddit.uk 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That's true. I just wish he'd give his laptop a chance, he has a controller for that

[–] RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Even then, the DS is pretty specific for its dual screen setup, and makes playing on anything that isnt a DS or similar form factor feel pretty unapproachable. Have you tried other consoles, like the PSP? Since it only has one screen, and does not have touch support, it can feel like it was designed for normal console style play.

Its only a suggestion, there may be other reasons he doesn't play. Maybe the games just don't interest him?

[–] yakko@feddit.uk 1 points 1 month ago

I did say "and several thousand other games". It's a pretty big collection. Everything from NES to PS2.

[–] Wytch@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 month ago

Tough thing about being a kid. Lot of free time, no responsibilities, and no idea what you wanna do with it. In a sense anyway. When I was a kid yeah we had fewer choices. But I also had limited experience. Didn't know what I might like or not.

I see my niece grow up with a similar attitude about movies. "I would not like that." You can't know that. So many games, you just don't know which ones to play. You don't have the criteria in mind to make an educated guess about what might be a good match for you.

[–] maniel@sopuli.xyz 9 points 1 month ago

yeah, PC here, i didn't really much games before digital distribution came along, but i was enjoying every demo i got on a cd that came with magazines, now - over 20 years later i have nothing to play

[–] Tramdan@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Literally?

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Literally literally means figuratively now.

[–] Quicky@piefed.social 7 points 1 month ago

And for at least 250 years. Literally

[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Literally is the new figuratively?

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Literally.

[–] Hawke@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Literally. Infantile amnesia is a thing. So is Last Thuradayism.