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[–] QueenHawlSera@sh.itjust.works 33 points 4 days ago (7 children)

I'm 34 dating a 25 year old myself. Which I checked, it passes the "Half your age plus 7" test

(34 / 2 = 17 + 7 = 24) Sometimes I still feel weird about it though

[–] BarbecueCowboy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 3 days ago

I'm just a bit older, but been there.

I could never get past it though. I have a daughter too, and it really just takes one experience where they really remind you of your kid and... yeah, I don't think I can do this y'all.

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[–] sleen@lemmy.zip 21 points 3 days ago (6 children)

OP doesn't understand what cultural progression is. Of course different people gonna do stuff differently as time progresses, the class she was when you where in high school is just irrelevant.

This is the case where op just has skill issue, and is stuck in the past like a boomer he is.

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[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 12 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

OP is still on 4chan. Lingo aside I'd say he's in his maturity range.

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

Also 19 and 28 are both still Gen Z.

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[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

4channers should probably just stay out of the dating pool entirely.

As an adult for most dating your peers is preferable to dating younger adults. I don't want to hear "So what was the gas crisis like?" on a date ever again (IDK what it was like I was 3).

[–] P1k1e@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago

I once made the mistake of dating someone 12 years younger than me (she was 25). Man, what a mistake, nevermind the cultural differences, her emotional maturity was....intolerable, and this from a person I'd considered a friend for a year already. It was the first and last time iv ever done that.

[–] HalfSalesman@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (8 children)

I date/have sex with who I'm physically attracted to. Otherwise I'm OK if we just stay (non-sexual) friends. Us having stuff in common doesn't make me horny for them or want to romance them.

If we have nothing in common because of an age gap, then the sexual relationship becomes a reason to learn about them. As long as we agree with each other on politics.

That said I have no expectations, admittedly atm all I've been getting is one night stands every once in a while and I'd like deeper relationships (I'm poly). But fuck maybe I just wont get one. shrugs I'll just keep trying until I get one.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 16 points 4 days ago

I actually vibe more with the generations after me than my own; but I would find it creepy myself to be with someone who isn't relatively close to my own age.

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