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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (6 children)

Oh here we go again with the whole Lemon gets sick at school narrative 🙄 maybe if you didn’t shelter her for 4 years she’d be more immune to sicknesses (not saying she’d never get sick but you know what I mean!!) maybe your flying all over made her sick with all your airport germs because we know you’re a dirty slob.

Also she is a selfish pathetic mother for ditching her poor sick little girl to go to NYC, California and a wedding for two nights. Just a sad excuse for a mother, nothing she did was more important than taking care of her sick child. Kick rocks you stupid bitch! Sorry she makes me so mad lol. Also acting like mother of the year walking her to school 🙄

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 days ago

No sorry needed she’s a total ass. When she’s feeling a high from some grandiose delusions of her own fame and importance she’s is so gross to watch.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 days ago (1 children)

She somehow made herself look worse! One thing is leaving your child. Another is leaving your sick kid. Way to out yourself, you selfish loser.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 days ago

She doesn’t see how wrong it is either, she really is messed up

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)

She’s a dumb bitch that’s all…..

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 days ago

Imagine acting this way bc you CHOSE to wake up and watch a show for young adults at 3am. It wasn’t a competition on who’d watch it first lol. Literally once again proving she’ll do anything but watch her kid.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Not only that. Her kid was sick and her and hubby went off galivanting to a wedding.......leaving her chronically ill, elderly mother to care for a sick child.........exposing NK to sickness could be dangerous to her with her age and health situation.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 days ago

She probably did leave L with Nana but I think bird leaves L home with the teens too!

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 days ago

She's the one bringing back illness. I csnt stand her and I csnt wait for her to fall hard.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Came here to say the exact same thing. She’s actually the worst of all the “influencers” and her selfishness is getting worse.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 days ago

It shocks me how selfish she really is and how she sees no wrong in her actions. She can’t use work as excuse either bc walking a red carpet for something she has no part of is not work at all.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 days ago (5 children)

OH MY FUCK. Can this absolute dickhead just shut the fuck up and get off her soapbox?! Egregious bitch

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 days ago

"working". Can somebody from the Funny Farm some please load this quack up? She's bonified crazy

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I’m sorry but walking a red carpet where NOBODY knew who she was is not work, she did no work at that event. I could see if she wrote review articles or did interviews but all she did was look like a gigantic bitch on a red carpet because photographers didn’t know her name. What work did she do at Disney animation? She posted some photos of big and tiny things, wow!

Her definition of work is certainly different than what most consider a work day. God I am sick of her.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Sure she gets large paychecks for “partnerships” with Ninja or Canadian Tire and a few sympathy shoots with Knix. But if she’s been doing this for 7 years and that’s the payoff for always being away from your kids to get dressed up a fake some version of celebrity doesn’t seem like she’s doing anything meaningful full at all. Her work has not paid off?!! She was saying this is who she wants to be at 90 - saying yes and all that BS. I do believe she will be 90, completely self absorbed without a clue in the world about why she is alone and no one cares about her 90 years.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Agreed. When she’s 90 she’ll be looking at an empty house because her kids want nothing to do with her and she’ll be into several divorces. She’ll be alone but at least she’ll have some red carpet photos of herself all alone!

Funny, all her big special moments (in her mind) she has spent them all alone. How can that be super special? Doing everything meaningful alone? That’d make me feel so shitty if I were her family and I knew none of my mother’s/wives best moments were spent with me.

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[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 days ago

Speaking of the premiere she attended…why was she even on that carpet getting her photo taken? Who was she representing there? She was just “there”. Doing absolutely nothing. Celebrities attend premieres to create interest because people are influenced and want to be seen adjacent to celebrity status. This is not the case whatsoever. Also, it’s a series for adults so it tracks that it’s not her bag. Now, going to see cartoons or teenage movies is more like it. I think it’s yuck when adults pander to kids and high school/college aged young adults.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 days ago

Working? Bahahaha!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 days ago

Absolutely insane. I wonder what her driving skills are like when she is this out of it.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 days ago (4 children)

She’s still busy ‘working’!

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 days ago

She's gross.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)
[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 7 points 3 days ago

I interesting text box placement today

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 days ago

Lol. Definitely sarcopenic. Eew

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[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 15 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

If I'm ever emotionally fulfilled from a TV show and not my family, travels, friends, experiences, or career, please institutionilze me.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 16 points 4 days ago (3 children)

My fulfillment as a MOTHER: sitting down at the dinner table with them every day and talking, laughing and honestly I sometimes just sit back and observe my kids (24, 19, 17) as they all banter with their boyfriends, girlfriends. Watching these young adults interact and bond with each other - THAT IS TRUE FULFILLMENT. You absolute self centred c u next Tuesday. Get wrecked 🖕🏼

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 4 days ago

Do you remember her whole thing where she said you don’t have to be with your child to parent? One of the kids was asking her to buy something and she did it from - a concert (I think) - that’s not parenting. That is being a wallet. Or how about when 🍋 was younger and she said her child was so young she didn’t even know her mother had been away? She wants the title of mother and all that it brings her but doesn’t want to actually mother anyone but herself.

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 days ago

You mean it isn't staring at yourself on your phone? It's not travelling solo while continually talking about a long ago divorce? Passing off your kids to your mother while you pretend you deserve to act single and carefree? 🙄

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 days ago

Hell ya! Same girl!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 4 days ago (2 children)

She just wants to look cool and fit in because TSITP is the most popular show out there right now, she’ll literally jump on any bandwagon and then go full speed. She just looks pathetic tbh.

Her life sucks. She has a lovely family, a newly renovated home, she gets freebies galore handed to her, free trips and none of that is good enough for her. She needs a show whose demographic is young adults to make her feel fulfilled, god help this woman.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I don't, watch TV so I don't have any clue what this show is.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 7 points 3 days ago

It’s mainly a show for teens and young adults. I admit i watch it and I’m a year younger than her but I’m also not acting the way she is about it that’s for sure. Like it isn’t worth this much energy lol.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 10 points 4 days ago

You forgot the Pepto Palace - she has a cottage too but it’s a show that fulfills her.

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 13 points 4 days ago

She's going to get just what she deserves emotionally from those kids someday. Unfortunately, they are getting what they don't deserve emotionally from their birthing human already.

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