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So, I remember this one lady some of my friends were friends with. She seemed really sweet and kind, was pretty popular with the guys in our circle and platonically the ladies.

Some people, though, saw a fake side to her, which I began to see after spending a bit of time with her. She even looks a bit like Regina George, or like the stereotypical snobby blonde girl.

She seemed like a very paranoid person, like if I brought up something, she would ask how I knew even when she told me before. She also accused me of stalking her when I was walking up to her friend and she happened to be just finished talking.

One thing that stood out to me was when she asked if we were dating. I was very confused, but she responded with "of course you don't know". Then, she became really hostile after I said "I don't think so". She then got mad at me when i said anything and when I told her I had an S/O, she said "Ohh boy..."

She proceeded to use alternate accounts to find out who my friends were and my location.

The thing is, though, she's straight. I don't get why she would ask this or do the stuff she did. Was it possible she was into me and got mad that I didn't like her back?

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[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 5 days ago

From what I've seen, some people aren't in it for the attraction, they're in it for the control. The fact that she was so... twitchy around the handling and distribution of information in general would reaffirm this to my mind.

[–] Pa55i0n@sh.itjust.works 8 points 5 days ago

Honestly, possibly. People are weird indeed.

[–] neukenindekeuken@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago (2 children)

it's very possible she's crazy. Stay away.

[–] Noobnarski@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, she doesn't sound like a great person to be around.

she's horrible

she certainly isn't all there

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 days ago

She sounds creepy as hell man.