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Question for those who are Hypersexual.
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I don't know of any resources, and it's definitely something I feel like I can't talk about. You aren't alone!
Because you aren't hypersexual or because it's taboo? Your name suggests you're pretty spicy ๐
:P It's a little of both - I've cooled off a lot now in my late 30s, but I had a very hard time as a child and into my teenage years. It's the events from back then, and the choices I made during that time that I carry a lot of shame about.
Hey! There's two of us!
I don't have a lot of shame though. I've come to peace with it. I have a condition that doctors absolutely refused to treat, and I had to self-medicate.
If I had been allowed a real education instead of fucking abstinence only crap, I wouldn't have been sobbing into my pillows at night because I was burning alive and didn't know what to do. And then I wouldn't have seized so hard on what I thought was the answer!
The decisions we made were the best we could with what we had. I wouldn't hold any judgement for someone else who did the things I did, only sympathy, and I don't want to be a hypocrite so I treat myself with sympathy, too.
You see I'm also in my late thirties and there has been no let up. It's just a constant stream of detailed sexual thoughts about so many different people. It's debilitating.