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Gateshead woman with alopecia accused of being male while using female toilet at Tesco (www.chroniclelive.co.uk)

submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by Quokka@quokk.au to c/unitedkingdom@feddit.uk

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The 37-year-old, who has had the hair loss condition since she was a child, said she was left shocked when a cleaner at the Trinity Square shop asked her "Are you aware you're in the female toilet?" She said she became distressed and burst into tears.

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[–] SpaghettiMaster@feddit.uk 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Why though? Its a toilet. Couldn't they just say the sign is only suggested genders. Women can clean men's toilets still.

[–] Kangae_Hishiryo@scribe.disroot.org 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Point is, there are malicious people, both men and women. I think there have to be security measures in order for it to be impossible (or at least, highly difficult) to do things as spying or putting hidden cameras. But of course, that shouldn't be done based only in the looks, but mostly in the behaviour. Anyone with a suspicious behaviour should be policed, but that's like something that should be taken for granted in the first place.

Women can clean men's toilets still.

About this, I ask rhetorically: would you also say that "men can clean women's toilets still"? I personally doubt it given a lot of previous experiences on this topic, and I believe that in such a case one must be consistent: either both or neither.

[–] SpaghettiMaster@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

would you also say that “men can clean women’s toilets still”?

Yes. I don't even see why we need to have gendered toilets in the first place. No one has one at home. Seen a fair few places with a single toilet that is obviously not gendered. Never seen a gendered disabled toilet either.

[–] Kangae_Hishiryo@scribe.disroot.org 2 points 1 day ago

Well, that's fair.

In a gender-neutral bath we can have the double of good people to stop any bad person that wants to abuse others while they're vulnerable, so, yeah, I don't know either why there is a separation. If anything, there could be gendered baths only for people that feel really uncomfortable in gender-neutral ones, but that's only to have more options (which is always good).