childfree

Yeah, research shows that you don't know how kids turn out until after they're adults and raising their own kids, and by then there's an impossible amount of variables to account for and only a few snapshots of what was working in the modern age, at best.

Now aside from all that spiel, you're trying to change what the point is. It's stupid to just always go with "the safest thing". What's your master plan? Eliminate all risk at the cost of freedom and fun until the odds of tragically dying reach an equilibrium with people killing themselves from being depressed?