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I think people are right that the solution here isn't to try a different project.
Instead of being confrontational about it, though, I'd recommend a different aproach.
A lot can be fixed by just acknowledging people. They're trying to evaluate something they don't understand, and having a reaction. It's not even unreasonable. The right thing to do is just acknowledge and move on.
Usually that's all it takes. Don't let yourself be embarrassed when you're being reasonable. If they won't move on, that's the point where I start thinking about job applications somewhere else.
This is because you are mature, you came up with the mature response.
My response was basically something along those lines. But it's still DOA, because that coworker now has to sell it to their team, and they won't.
Another team asked for your input, and you gave your input. If they don't want to take your input then what does it matter?
Lost opportunity for the open source community
How? Having bad people badding about your stuff is bad overall.