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Goddamn duuude. You dodged a nuclear missile in hiding with that one. Or with both of them lol. Props ๐ซฑ๐ฟโ๐ซฒ๐ฝ to you.
That didnt really sound like a romatic relationship to me.
To me romantic relationships shouldnt feel like youre working a job to keep them going. They should be nearly effortless (NOT completely effortless, just that you and that prerson get together and vibe so smoothly on all the things you do and plan together that therr is usually no need for you to 'save them' each time) , consensual and enjoyable for everyone involved.
Sorry for your pain.๐ซ If you ever go back out there I hope you meet 'The Right One' ...or 'Ones' if youre into that.
Thanks! Maybe one day I'll meet someone.