PS: The point here is NOT that poor people shouldn't have kids, it's that no one should be having kids without having the basics of childcare covered, which necessitates widespread systemic, societal, and economic change so that no parent needs to worry about those basics, and kids can grow up in secure, healthy environments. I completely forgot to mention this when I originally posted it, and that's my bad.
Ah yes blaming victims is the correct course. \s
We, all of us, are society.
We did this, either by action or inaction.
We are the perpetrators and not the victims.