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Fellow ADHDers, are you actually able to enjoy co-op gaming? (piefed.world)

submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by meejle@piefed.world to c/adhd@lemmy.world

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AuDHD here, and I certainly can't.

I'm specifically thinking about Big Walk, but this applies to every co-op game I've ever tried. Portal 2 co-op also springs to mind.

I figure things out way more slowly than everyone else. I have no sense of direction, so I constantly get lost and lag behind.

And the freeform, "Let's go and look at this… Oh, or, actually, we could go and look at that first…" shit is just overwhelming. Most of the time I don't really understand either of the two options, having not noticed the same landmarks as the other players – and even if I did, I can't visualise where I am in relation to them. So I just say "dunno" or "either is fine", and worry about missing out on the other option – even as I'm stuck not actually contributing anything to the game.

People walk into a new puzzle and can instantly start putting the pieces together. I could, if I had time to have a look around and figure out all the different "parts" to the puzzle… get my bearings, y'know? But in a co-op game, what invariably happens is that everyone else figures it out while I get more and more confused and feel like crying.

Either that or I end up basically being "the guy who holds the light" while the actual human players have fun all around me. 🙄

And then I get to be the "moody" guy who ruins it for everyone by having a shit time and complaining. It's unbearable, it makes me feel like such a joke of a failure of a person.

Can anyone relate? 🙈

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ETA: Thanks for all the replies, I'm loving hearing everyone's thoughts and it's made me feel SO much better. 💖

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[–] Cris_Citrus@piefed.zip 5 points 2 weeks ago

I love coop, its my favorite way to play games and the way I grew up playing them with my brother

In my experience usually one person kinda leads and you just sorta do what's happening if youre following. I was the younger sibling so my brother was generally the one leading

Maybe it helps that thats how I grew up playing games. In many ways I prefer local co-op to single player, though theres stuff thats really nice about single player too. I tend to be more engaged in the story and get to experience the narrative and atmosphere more in single player