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[–] darkdemize@sh.itjust.works 15 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

An hour each way? No fucking thank you.

[–] SorryQuick@lemmy.ca 1 points 8 hours ago

If the tradeoff is that you can afford a house in the countryside instead of an overpriced appartment in the city, I think I’d accept the long commute, I’d just press for fewer days at the office and be happy

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

It suits me just fine, I work in the center of the capital, but I live 30km outside the city, with public transport it is a lovely break between work and home.

If I drive it usually takes 30-45 min, but then I need to find a parking spot, get stressed when driving in the city and can't relax and zone out on my commute home.

My current situation is perfect for me.

[–] white_nrdy@programming.dev 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Personally I assumed that you meant you had a 1 hour driving commute. Which sounds terrible. But the fact that it is by transit makes it much more appealing. Personally I don't think I'd mind it since it is built in reading time

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, that is what I do, I catch up on youtube, browse lemmy, and in general just wind down.

[–] white_nrdy@programming.dev 1 points 8 hours ago

Having good decompression time after work is essential. When I had a car, I found myself to be very irritable after work if I drove home. However when biking ant walking I'm way less stressed out compared to driving (I hate driving), and can decompress. So I don't really feel irritable after