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[–] Viceversa@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago (2 children)

What is findom? Financial domination? Like being a sugar daddy?

[–] SalmiakDragon@feddit.nu 6 points 3 days ago

Yes, financial domination. I think it's more akin to being someone's ATM.

[–] formation@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I keep on ending up like this unironically when the relationship starts off closer to 50/50 slowly 60/40 70/30 then they lose their job then its 100/0 forever even when they gain their job back.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 0 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I hope you put good people in your life someday soon. Its so demoralizing to run into the exact same person with a new face over and over.

[–] formation@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

Its hard, the mask slips so much further along and I ignore the signs so hard (this is why they say love is blind) but im working on it with my therapy so I have hope.

I wish I could just be a "dont take my generosity for weakness" types but Im not 🫠

[–] SUDO@reddthat.com 3 points 2 days ago

This is not financial advice, but I think if you are stressing your bond allocation too much; you may be missing out on compounding growth. A targeted date fund is perfectly acceptable, so much so that it is a standard in most investment portfolios and even the default, daddy.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah I think you just keep dating freeloaders, unless they're like being dominant about being broke.

[–] formation@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

Idk what you call it but they get SOO pissed when you ask them to do anything, I asked them to help out more when I was paying for everything that theyre "a slave" bitch all I asked was for you to cook as I was busy after work