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Welp, I’m an autistic woman and I’m not that good at masking. I guess it was good while it lasted, friends.
Social development doesn't mean the development of social skills in this context lol.
(Emphasis mine) I didn’t mean like that, lol. They’d just find me… undogmatic, to say the least.
Yeah, its a useful concept, but the writing is kinda dogshit idealism, focusing on social structures instead of their causes.
Yeah, I’m mostly considering the attitude towards difference, whether it’s because of the church or not is irrelevant. I mean, I already know that I’m not the ideal for any religion (except maybe Neoplatonism), whereas I only suspect that would be the case for any culture with low social development.
But, just to be clear, my original comment was related to being a loud, persnickety weirdo, which is generally punished by cultures with low social development, not with my personal “social development.” I brought up masking because I’m just not good enough at shutting up and blending in to fly under the radar.