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Sure any criticism is valid, it''s less valid when they miss OPs point, but after a certain length it becomes unnecessarily condescending.
I'm not trying to deflect from their criticism or how it displays their misunderstanding of OPs point, I'm trying to say they are being an asshole
I don't think they were being an asshole about it.
Sorry if I came off that way. About misunderstanding the point - look at the other comments. People are making the same points as me. I don’t think I have misunderstood anything here, and I don’t think being a long response automatically makes it any less valid to understand how nuanced and all encompassing our dependence on third parties is.
You’re the one saying “this is a Wendy’s” which feels quite condescending in a post explicitly asking for opinions on how where Plex falls in the selfhosting community, including as defined in the sidebar.