This isn't a guide, just something i think may help. To install Steam on an Arch-based distro in most of the cases a simple sudo pacman -S steam will do just fine.
The installation will ask you to select a valid vulkan package from a list. And in most of the cases that's just fine... most of them.
Then you have your very "picky" old nvidia GPU which works only with a specific old nvidia driver and if you try to install anything else, there will be a conflict. Now you can try to remove the old (working) drivers and try your luck. But looking online i find a simple way to skip this passage and install Steam.
sudo pacman -S steam --assume-installed lib32-vulkan-driver
I have to reinstall the driver for my ancient 1070Ti pretty much every update.
Interesting. My 1070ti works fine after every update. I switched to CachyOS after it lost mainstream support, so maybe it's that? Idk. Best of luck figuring that out, though, sounds awful.