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Anyone else just not like looking at faces (lemmy.zip)

submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by hodgepodgin@lemmy.zip to c/asklemmy@sh.itjust.works

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Sometimes I just don’t want to look at faces. Sometimes not even my own— I have to force myself to meet my own eyes. In public it’s either no eye contact or just a furtive glance. At work I catch myself accidentally drifting my eyes somewhere else like the floor or a random tool bag.

I know we’re all put together differently but this seems to be something a lot of people now have.

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[–] Hideakikarate@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 days ago

It has to be a conscience effort for me, then I have to not continue to stare at their face in order to not be seen as creepy. It's a constant balancing.