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[–] Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 hours ago

Attraction has little to do with it, attraction is just whether you want to have sex with that person the first time. After that, every other quality becomes way more important.

There's no excuses being made, i dated people took a while to figure out what i wanted in a relationship, and now i have it.

Of course there's nothing magical about my partner because magic is nonsense. She's just the right partner for me.

And yeah idk i think you're really confused about what effort means. You can get a lot done effortlessly if you feel good about it. Yes, feelings are important, in fact feelings are the only thing that ever made any human do anything.

But i spent incredible amounts of effort on my exes and it didn't work out because we weren't exactly right for each other. All the effort in the world won't help you do more than survive for the next day, whether it's love work or anything else.