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[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

People change, and you change, over the years. And over time life can throw a lot of shit your way. Love is easy when it’s just dates in your free time, or if you’re long distance and every visit is a little vacation. When every encounter is a special little event.

Not everyone changes. Some people do the same shit for decades and they abhor novelty and change.

I'm dating in my 40s... many of the women I meet have been doing the same shit for 20+ years and do not want to change anything about their life and have zero interest in trying new things or adapting to someone else.