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So I get attracted to the noise people make when they sleep: snoring. I tend to prefer lighter snores that just help me sleep at night without being obnoxious, but the fact that they make such a sound and they're completely unaware of anything I might do, especially if I'm watching them while they're defenseless (but I wouldn't actively kiss them or worse or something), is so wonderful to me.

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[–] TaterTot@piefed.social 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Inherently creepy, no, not at all. Frankly, it's a fairly benign and even kinda wholesome.

Though might I recommend using more disarming language when telling this to anyone who might be sleeping near you? Saying "I find snoring cute" or "I find snoring attractive" is more likely to put people at ease. Saying "watching them while they're defenseless" or "I wouldn't kiss you or worse", even with the most innocent of intent, tends to put too much emphasis on why you felt the need to clarify. Especially if they didn't ask. Which tends to put people on guard.

Assuming you already have that covered, then rest assured you are not creepy in the least. Just a person who has a thing for snoring. Which is, kinda vanilla, imho.