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Wore mine for about the first 10 years. Always catching it on something and needing expensive repairs. I'm not a jewellery person otherwise so eventually I quit wearing it except special occasions. It's been another 25 years and no one asks. If I meet someone new the first things they learn about me are my husband and kids - no ring needed. I got hit on more when I wore my wedding ring than I do now but that may simply be an age thing. My husband continued to wear his but in the last few years has worn it less, mainly because he has new hobbies where it could be a danger and then he forgets to put it back on. He wears a family ring and an engineers ring as well so he is more accustomed to wearing rings. Only one who bugs me about it is my SIL. She's angling for another ring and my BIL points out that I don't wear one, let alone have 3 different sets.