Selfhosted

Hi all, I’m desperate. This has been draining my brain cells one a time. I know for a fact that it is not an ABS issue, because it runs flawlessly locally and it has never even hitched once. The shit starts when I connect through my cloudflare “.com” domain that I just bought last week thinking it’ll solve all my problems (nope).

Every now and then, the frontend client I use (it doesn’t matter which one I use) just disconnects from my ABS server and things just start spinning for a very long time. Just out of nowhere and half of my books are just ghosts because it can’t reach the sever. It acts as if the ABS server becomes inactive and cloudflare just shuts off its tunnel. It’s like the ABS server stops telling cloudflare “yo, I’m up, give me a pass” but cloudflare doesn’t hear/see it and just disconnects it anyway, if that makes any sense.

Sometimes it comes back, and others I have to go into my Debian server and restart the cloudflared service I have for it, in order for the service to resume. I often go to the web interface and either get a red error message complaining about websocket something something. Then I’d refresh the page and either get thrown into the login screen and get stuck there or get the “oops couldn’t find library……..”.

I’ve literally disabled everything I can on cloudflare dashboard that now probably a child can hack me. lol . I even put my audiobooks server in its own tunnel.

I’m at a point that I’m just gonna give up and deactivate all of this cloudflare shit and go back to tailscale and switching servers between home and out of home.

I’m asking for any suggestions if you’ve ever been through something similar. Searching the internet lead me to doing many things that didn’t even fix it. Don’t even get me started on AI.

Thank you in advance. Let me know if you want any details: Debian Trixie and the latest ABS server. Your average .com cloudflare domain are the things I have.

Edit: one little detail I forgot to mention maybe it could be of help. My phone and the pc are both running through pihole and my own DNS with unbound.