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This is a friendly and welcoming community for individuals with borderline personality disorder to discuss their condition and receive support from other like-minded individuals. While intended for individuals diagnosed with bpd, undiagnosed individuals, loved ones, family members, and anyone else who may be interested in learning more about bpd are more than welcome to subscribe.

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One day I’ll be good enough for him. One day he’ll approve of me.

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[–] Quexotic@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago

This is all true. I will add a personal insight.

I wasn't able to have a really good deep and healthy relationship until I was willing to accept myself and let go of perfection.

To be clear, I hadn't fully accepted myself when the good started, I just began accepting myself.

Friend, you are enough as you are.