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What does "official budget" mean? Serious question, what else are you supposed to do other than check your account every once in a while*?
* (and by that I mean get notifications from your bank if there's any movement)
Some people use apps or spreadsheets to have a very structured budget. I am not one of them. I have a concept of a budget.
I use a spreadsheet. Mainly so I can see where my money is going/how much I need to get paid to continue not being homeless.
To be very fair though this isn't a skill I learned so much as one that was forced on me by the military before they'd let me "adult". By adult I mean live on my own.
Very interesting, how’d they enforce that?
By not providing BAH/BAS (Housing allowance/Food allowance) to unmarried members of the military who wanted to move out of the barracks without proof they had had financial counseling.