this post was submitted on 18 Feb 2026
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Being single, I don’t have to worry about my boyfriend looking at and lusting over other women. Or not listening to me. Or judging me. Shouting at me. Calling me names. Threatening suicide. Or about his well being 🤷‍♀️. Keeping him interested…. The list goes on. Rethinking if being with him is really worth it…

But I don’t get cuddles, kisses, a person to go to and be with.

I always thought, “I need to focus on my friendships before getting with a guy” friends are the foundation. I wouldn’t be with me if I was a guy. I’m pretty boring. Not got anything going on. But Yh. Even though I’m currently single, I’ve not used my single time to work on my self and my life and improving it.

I do romanticise having an fp that I can run away with but. Maybe this is it.

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[–] Sergio@piefed.social 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

But I don’t get cuddles, kisses, a person to go to and be with.

Reminds me of this comic. Two people are talking in a cafe, and one of them's like: "I need a boyfriend... one I can talk to, who listens to me and understands me who loves me and is always pleased to see me..." And Nemi's like: "You don't need a boyfriend. You need a dog."

[–] hayyy@thelemmy.club 2 points 21 hours ago

Lol. I really wanted a dog recently…