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[–] toynbee@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's not reliable, either.

I once was encouraged, vocally and clearly, by a girl to cross the room and kiss her. It would have been my first kiss or, indeed, romantic encounter of any kind in person.

I didn't and we just sat on opposite couches until our friends got tired of checking on us and took us our separate ways.

[–] Karjalan@lemmy.world 13 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

To be fair, in the era of "first kiss" it's important to remember that we are all awkward as fuck.

[–] toynbee@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago

Hell, I still am. Nigh a decade of marriage and six years of parenthood and I still have to consider whether my wife wants to be associated with me.

However, I will admit it's not... Usually... As awkward as that first time.