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Thank you for saying this, I was going crazy re-reading the original post. It reeks of privilege and escapism, and the replies have mostly been hugboxing.
I've been happy with my decision to move to a smaller place after a lot of critical thought on why I felt a desire to move to Chicago. There ended up being two objectively better options for my needs and life circumstances. It was a headache to try to neutrally weigh smaller cities against the glossy, ready-made big city "experience," but I'm glad I did.
Escapism yes, privilege no, "hugboxing"
OP works in landscaping/conservation and earns well below the national GDP per capita. Being able to take on a 300k mortgage is mid-range for Americans.