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[–] ryven@lemmy.dbzer0.com -5 points 3 months ago (6 children)

Am I the only one who's pro-tipping? I feel the need to apologize for making people do work. If you told me I wasn't allowed to tip I'd be leaving cash on the counter and running off.

[–] skrlet13@feddit.cl 23 points 3 months ago

Unfortunately tips in many places are used so employers don't have to pay fair wages. The point of "no tips" is to demand fair wages from the start.

[–] CXORA@aussie.zone 11 points 3 months ago

I think you'll find most people have no problem with tipping, only with forced tipping or the cultural pressure to tip. Most people dont want to stop you from tipping if you would like to.

[–] aaa@lemmy.zip 10 points 3 months ago

In the region of the world I’m from, waiter unions themselves are against tipping. The reasons I have heard are that

  1. wage negotiations should not happen between customers and employees
  2. the principle of everyone’s salary being enough to cover all costs of living
  3. neither customer nor employee will benefit from service staff having too low wages
  4. worker’s rights cannot practically be built using funds from tipping
  5. normalising tipping will be used by the employer as an argument to pay below liveable wages

That being said, waiters are given a liveable wage here. And locals also sometimes tip for great service. But that’s just a bonus for the waiter, not the expectation.

I would personally suggest you reevaluate your pro-tipping stance given the above, but I don’t know where in the world you’re from, nor how waiters are treated or paid there

[–] queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 months ago

I'm generally anti-tipping since it gives shitty employers a fig leaf to pay their workers an unlivable wage, but I still tip if I'm at an establishment where workers depend on tips. The system ain't their fault.

[–] SuiXi3D@fedia.io 1 points 3 months ago

Not my job to make up for the fact that their employer can’t pay a living wage.