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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.
Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:
- Both “200” and “160” are 2 minutes in microwave math
- When you’re a kid, you don’t realize you’re also watching your mom and dad grow up.
- More dreams have been destroyed by alarm clocks than anything else
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Think you just pinpointed a major kink of your depression. Consumed by what others are thinking, even though that's their problem and not your's. I'm sure there's more, but I wouldn't be consumed about how you appear to others unless you want to live for everyone else's ideals and the expectations rather than your own.
Disassociating from that and reclaiming my life was a huge step forward in my depression and anxiety. I think that's one of the most common mental health pitfalls to not realise you've fallen into.
For me its not so much that, its moreso just that I am disgusted by those that claim to be virtuous and pretend to care. Most people only care about others socially, when those people are struggling they rarely help unless theres social consequences for not helping.
I just hate hypocrites
When there's a big, performative event for Suicide Prevention Month, everyone turns out and it's a big thing with mock sympathy and moral pedestal standing. Everyone tosses around mottos like "seeking help isn't a weakness, it's a strength" and whatnot.
But when you personally struggle with suicidal ideations, even during Suicide Prevention Month, and you try mentioning it anywhere, everyone shrieks and treats you like an asshole, and then nobody comes near you for the rest of your life...
Mate, you need some help, for real. I wish you the best, good luck in helping yourself 👍
"Seeking help isn't a weakness!" Until someone actually seeks help, then it's always "Well you just need to help yourself."