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Organizing for the things you can change, which isn't much in this "democracy", exercise for the things you can't. Doomerism and anxiety tend to go away if you spend 30 minutes a day running instead of doom scrolling.
THIS, organize for things you can change.
And so some pointless but fun things too, I bike marshal at PSL/lib rallies, not really going to change anything but it is fun to do.
I can't go outside without permission - what should I do?
Tough spot, but some suggestions I can think off the top of my head:
for organizing: come election time you can phone bank from home. Find a progressive cause or candidate you believe in and they'll usually have a system set up and script for you to call or text and a list of phone numbers. This can also be an entry point into the campaign to volunteer to do other things and you can explain your situation
For exercise:
you can buy some weights online and use those along with body weight exercise to work out. I mostly do cardio so I'm not too familiar but I'm sure there are plenty of guides online
walk a dog. If you don't have a dog you can probably find a neighbor near you who would be happy to have there dog walked. Idk how restrictive your living situation is but I'd hope that walking the neighbor's dog would get you permission.
try vr if you can afford it, some of the games will get you moving and sweating and are pretty fun, there are also guided workouts as well.
Whatever you do just start a regiment that you can do and keep to it. You probably won't see progress for a while but if you do keep on it and make it a habit you should start to notice your mood improve.
I don't have a phone, and again I CAN'T go outside without permission. I'm NOT even sure if my neighbors have a dog. Can slacktivism work?
IMO no, You're way less likely to reach anyone outside your bubble online unless you have a large broad following , and even then you're mostly broadcasting to an echo chamber. The algorithms are working against you, they don't want to show you nuanced takes from the other side that'll make you think and stop scrolling for a second, if they do show you takes from the other side they're going to show you extremist rage bait that is easily dismissed by a funny caption.
That's why I think phone banking , which can be done through software too even if you don't have a phone, is better. You're calling random people, and more of them are less into politics than the people on social media who are seeing political content, so they are less entrenched and more open. I guess you could also get to these people through social media but you'd have to fight against the algorithm to get out of the echo chambers and into the more moderate general spaces.
In general I think you need to focus on and put energy into things you can change for the good. If you are unable to change others minds then you can still focus and put energy into changing yourself for the better. You can focus on changing your mind for the better, learn an instrument, a new skill hobby etc. that you can see yourself getting better at. Or you can focus on changing your body for the better through exercise and diet.
For example if you want to fight climate change and probably improve your health with more fiber and can control your diet then switching to a vegetarian diet can be a way to change your body for the better. You can also learn to cook vegetarian food which will build a new skill and improve your mind, a skill you can clearly see / taste you getting better at.