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There’s the problem, right there. Women marinate in so much attention they just cannot understand how men can want relationships and sex, yet not be able to get it. Their brains melt down when you demonstrate how fundamentally and radically different the male experience is.
Men: if you want true understanding, you have a much better chance of achieving that with a male therapist.
I think the most women are smart enough to understand the differences between how men and women experience and express sexual desire, but maybe it sometimes grad school beats it out of people.
Like it's truly bizarre that her first response was "Oh you're asexual", just immediately slapping an identity label on the experience rather than asking a simple probing question in the vein of "Why?"
(Of course all green texts are fake and gay etc)
You are so far out in left field it isn’t even funny.
It's just not the kind of response I've heard from women who aren't super libed out, much less therapists, but I suspect there is trend away from listening and understanding and towards quick diagnosis and categorization in therapy.