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Alternative to Gmail? I currently use my own domain for email, but i miss the priority inbox (feddit.nl)
submitted 5 months ago by Markus29@feddit.nl to c/selfhosted@lemmy.world
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I've got two domain names set up for work and personal email, but I'm absolutely drowning in unread emails, around 4,000. Most are those annoying notifications like "Your security code is xxx," "Your parcel has shipped," and requests to rate my experience.

Right now, I've been trying out Inbox Zero with an old Gmail account. It's cool, but honestly feels a bit overkill and only works with Gmail and Outlook. I switched to my own domains to get away from Google in the first place!

So, I’m on the hunt for an email provider that has solid SPAM filters and can create a priority inbox without all the pesky notification clutter. Bonus points if it supports custom domains.

Any suggestions?

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[–] ExcessShiv@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Just drop it (both of you)...at this point you're just a sea lion and a troll exchanging messages.

[–] CTDummy@piefed.social 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Also, sealioning is “just asking questions” (JAQ’ing off). Consistently interrogating a position or POV for example, with requests for evidence. Not asking someone to provide some sort of evidence for a single claim they made in reply to another user and refusal to find said evidence for them.

Sealioning (also sea-lioning and sea lioning ) is a type of trolling or harassment that consists of pursuing people with relentless requests for evidence, often tangential or previously addressed, while maintaining a pretense of civility and sincerity ("I'm just trying to have a debate"), and feigning ignorance of the subject matter

Emphasis mine. From wiki. I appreciate the attempt to deescalate though and accept it’s probably time to pack it in with that particular user.

[–] Railcar8095@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

As long and they do it under this chain of messages, they don't sealion/troll anywhere else.