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Where no one appears to take initiative, no one responds to messages, lines of communication are confusing or things are not communicated at all, and so on?

It's bringing me back to where I feel like I have to try to actually get things done and create momentum by myself and I'm the babiest/newest person so I'm nervous to bring criticisms even though they're encouraged.

Is this common? Am I perhaps being too critical? I figure no one can answer that one for me but jfc I was hoping to be more supported by people who claim that demcen is important.

If anyone can share how they go about expressing concerns/criticisms constructively, lemme hear it

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[–] towhee@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Not quite like a school group project as there are actual near-term consequences for not getting something done in that case; more like volunteering. You can't actually hold anybody accountable to anything because everyone there is donating their time. If you're too hard on them they'll just stop showing up and you'll be down a volunteer. Most of your adversaries in government, administration, and elsewhere organize as their full-time paid job. Your other adversary is a nice lazy Sunday staying home playing video games, which is what people will do absent a particularly good reason to keep showing up.

I don't think anybody has really cracked the code of organizing effectively in a present-day capitalist society. I'm a bit doomerish about it because there are just so many more enjoyable ways to spend time. I think organizing around an activity is a good idea. You can read about those white nationalist "active clubs" that go out to parks and do MMA training. The SRA is decent for this reason but guns are an expensive hobby that don't mesh well with poor mental health. One thing is for sure - I won't be joining another reading group.