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I'm at a new job and working on a Saturday. This place is very "Christian-values blah blah blah" and at the end of our work day one of the supervisors is holding a prayer about "please God let this _ go smoothly and thank you for helping us etc."

This isn't the first time I've sat at a prayer that's this selfish and asinine. Pretty sure I've been in a prayer thanking Jesus for some hot wings.

This kind of prayer was given today. Y'know, the day where some pretty awful things happened in a South American country but who cares about that /s

I don't get Christians. They say all this nice stuff about their religion but the worship songs are very individualistic, talking about "Jesus saved me", "my relationship with god", "thank you God for x". Never about other people. And of course none of the prayers today were for IDK the people who fucking bombed and murdered today in our bloody quest for oil?!?

Do these people really think their God gives a fuck if their hot wings taste good or if the printer works in the office today? If you really believed in this Devine being wouldn't you want it to focus on the important things like IDK making sure everyone has food and shelter and maybe making life less miserable for the homeless people? WTF is wrong with Christians? Is this banal kind of "worship" also common in other religions or is this yet another reason to escape the U.S South ๐Ÿค”

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[โ€“] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

There's really nothing off hand I can offer that answers your specific question, unfortunately. I can look through some stuff and see where I got my ideas, but that'll take more time than I have tonight.

for books on thinking about religion and athropology more generally, i have to recommend Existential Anthropology by Michael Jackson (no relation hee hee) - despite not being specifically about religion, i feel it... really is helpful in creating a useful mindset for approaching religion & human society-centric topics in an academic and scholarly manner - tbqh it gets frustrating that this kind of education isn't a more important part of marxist studies, because it would radically alter the left's ability to engage with people for whom religion is often the dividing line between us and them.

i can possibly assemble a few others. I'll see what I can do - DM me so i don't forget about this and i'll throw some stuff your way when i have time.

In the mean time, i can at least point you to educational (non polemical/apologetic and backed up with real data) videos.

I highly recommend Religion For Breakfast and Let's Talk Religion. The former has a doctorate and is a pretty serious scholar. His videos often invite the view to comport themselves to a more academic understanding of the material before explaining things.

I would be careful to rely overly on materials that are speculative or are kinda... normie facing? the stuff that's made for sale as something you might readily find at barnes & noble or half-price books - as that stuff will not be trying to teach you how to think about and approach religious topics in a neutral, truth-seeking manner.

This is a Religion For Breakfast video about the parallels between modern fandoms & similar phenomena, and classical religion, and iirc to make sure the distinctions are understood he tries to read the viewer in to a more helpful mindset to think about these things in.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eU8w4KxoyRk

Let's Talk Religion is also ace stuff, but is more Islam-focused, and is, imo, really quite valuable in a very similar way.

I do read, but this stuff is a lot better to put in my head than entertainment slop, so i tend to favor it when i'm trying to distract myself. Lets me learn while being lazy.

They post their sources, back up their claims and analysis, and are generally a good starting point for deconstructing religious matters.

[โ€“] HexReplyBot@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

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