Changing my part of the deal also by not showing up.
this post was submitted on 26 Dec 2025
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This comment is such a red flag, lol. If she brought someone else that means she didn't feel safe alone with you, and apparently you're only thinking about how that affects you.
Lemmy is such a boys club. It's astonishing that this is top comment. And my reply will get downvoted by the boys club, as per usual.
We hung out by ourselves prior to that multiple times, so I doubt it's that. Perhaps her friend was around and she brought her along instead of sending her home, but a heads up would've been nice.
Excellent! Your first comment didn't make it sound like you were thinking about anything other than your own frustration and came off a certain way that I am very used to on Lemmy. Your second comment is a completely different tone and makes me feel like a jerk, lol.
Maybe she thought things were moving too fast?