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Meal prep and have easy to heat up meals ready to go for the first two weeks. Cooking becomes harder than you would ever believe once kiddo arrives.
Get baby bottles with limited feed nipples and at least two varieties of formula ready. Milk doesn't always come in on time or in the quantities that baby needs. Babies can also have digestive issues or taste preferences so having a backup option is clutch.
Get something that will let you wear the baby hands free. Some babies will wake like clockwork within minutes of being put down and sometimes the only way you can get something done is with the baby on your chest.
Something I didn't know about was that young babies under 3 months go a little crazy with their limbs when they sleep and need to be swaddled so they don't flail around. They're used to being in a confined space so being wrapped up in a baby blanket is very comforting. Make sure you have at least 3 to rotate out when they get dirty. They come in a few varieties so see which might work for you.
Babies can come early, like three weeks early, so get everything ready like diapers and wipes well before the due date. Assume you have less time than you think so you're not caught off guard.
Talk to family or friends and find out who would be able to help with chores, food or watching the baby periodically for the first few months
There's a ton of second hand, barely used or basically brand new baby stuff out there in basically any population center. Definitely check out second hand stuff for anything that you are thinking of spending more than pocket change on
Sleep is precious, enjoy it while you can