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Stuff we should get? Or features on some items?

Things to you wish you knew or had done before the baby arrived?

Any and all advice is welcome :)

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[–] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

A bunch of other stuff has been covered, so I'll just talk about communication.

Talking to teachers, preschool especially; kids are coming in with worse and worse communication skills.

The #1 bit of advice to have a kid that speaks well; talk to your baby, regularly,like about everything you are doing with/to them. Before they can speak they are learning words; phrasing and cadence.

I read somewhere years ago, before our first baby; that, babies learn new words when they are spoken to directly, they cement how to use those words when they hear their parents use words with others.

Edit: "baby speak" is not required....speak normally; singing however is great they love it.