Off My Chest
RULES:
I am looking for mods!
1. The "good" part of our community means we are pro-empathy and anti-harassment. However, we don't intend to make this a "safe space" where everyone has to be a saint. Sh*t happens, and life is messy. That's why we get things off our chests.
2. Bigotry is not allowed. That includes racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia, and religiophobia. (If you want to vent about religion, that's fine; but religion is not inherently evil.)
3. Frustrated, venting, or angry posts are still welcome.
4. Posts and comments that bait, threaten, or incite harassment are not allowed.
5. If anyone offers mental, medical, or professional advice here, please remember to take it with a grain of salt. Seek out real professionals if needed.
6. Please put NSFW behind NSFW tags.
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I know you're just explaining, not excusing, but if it's literally you're job, then you can put the effort in to read the whole goddamn email.
Whilst I absolutely agree that they should read the whole email, I look at it from the opposite side; I want them to absorb the important information so they don't bother me with trivial or repititious questions, and I know they'll absorb information at the start of my mail with a higher probability than information at the end, so I put the critical stuff at the front and repeat it in more detail later. It's for my sake, rather than to make their job easier, that it also makes their job easier is a bonus.
One of the most effective rules I've ever heard is "make it easy for them to give you what you want". In this case, the poster wants them to stop bothering them with trivial questions, so make the answers easy to digest and they can more easily not bother you. It holds in pretty much any situation when you want something from someone, from asking for a raise to ordering at a resturant. It's proven invaluable advice over the years.
I get it, and I've definitely gotten better at writing emails over the years... It still kind of annoys me though.