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[–] CTDummy@aussie.zone 28 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (28 children)

I watched a YT video by Dr Angela Collier on Richard Feynman. She drops this incredibly alarming stat that if a partner chokes you, you are 750% more likely to be murdered by that partner. I get that the kink isn’t 1:1 but it does make me wonder if there’s any relation.

Edited to include link to the paper.

[–] philophilsaurus@sh.itjust.works 31 points 1 month ago (8 children)

I feel like the context of whether it’s consensual or not is the real factor there. BUT a lot of the edgier kinks can become even more dangerous since people are uncomfortable talking/asking questions, so maybe it’s more complicated.

[–] CTDummy@aussie.zone 12 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Oh yeah for sure, that stat is undoubtedly in the context of argument/non-consent; not a consensual kink dynamic. I wondered if it’s because they don’t want to normalise it due to worrying about it carrying over to circumstances outside consensual sex dynamics. Like an abuser trying to argue it being in a BDSM dynamic when it’s actually an abusive one.

[–] JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Way too many people try things they see in porn without doing proper research practice or consents. 50 shades of grey was a terrible time for the bdsm community

[–] FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com 10 points 1 month ago

Those books were rape-manuals

When I was single, the second a woman would say "oh, you're like a real-life Christian Grey" I would know immediately that we weren't compatible

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