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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 month ago (5 children)

LOL who is this!!!!???? Persons camera must not have beauty filters installed.

[–] cookiefleck@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

If she’d just BE HERSELF, she’d be fine. She is a perfectly ordinary mommy. Don’t understand why she hates her true self so much.

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Because she doesn't want to be an ordinary mommy or even a mommy at all. She wants to be a "hot girl summer", quirky, fun, carefree 25 year old even though it can never be.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 month ago

You’ve got it exactly right. She wants a do-over. She doesn’t want to marry young and have the pregnancies begin. She wants to take a different road and start again but that’s not how real life works. She really believes all those ridiculous plots in the movies she watches are real and she’s going to be famous.

[–] cookiefleck@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago

Exactly right.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago

She doesn’t know who she is so she can’t be herself. She is always pretending to be someone else; both in looks and personality

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

This one shook me! It looks like she aged 15 years from what she posts - maybe 20. She looks scary.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I had to do multiple double takes bc I was so taken aback. I’m shocked she even reposted it but I’m sure she only did to gaslight her followers.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I wonder how many views her stories really get. Look at the comments numbers on her last three posts.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

And 75% of the comments are her replying to other “influencers” 💀

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (2 children)

She'd be nothing without the hate watchers. We may be all she has left. Her filters today are pretty interesting.

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago

What a jackass fool. 😆🤣

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What’s going on with her eye in the top left one?

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago

I think the filter is attempting to make her face symmetrical. Normally, that eye sits lower on her face. Most people have slightly uneven eyes; some may even have one eye that is somewhat larger than the other. The filter is attempting facial perfection, so it looks like the eye is being tugged up.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago

What in the Ivana Trump is going on...............

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago