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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (7 children)
[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago

Since she asked. My diagnosis - narcissist, selfish, liar, attention wh0re.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Diagnosis: Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is a mental health condition marked by unstable emotions, a distorted self-image, and an overwhelming desire to be noticed. People with HPD often behave dramatically or inappropriately to get attention. For people with histrionic personality disorder, their self-esteem depends on the approval of others and doesn’t come from a true feeling of self-worth. They have an overwhelming desire to be noticed and often behave dramatically or inappropriately to get attention.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

LOL. She has all the symptoms!

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

You should send her the bill for your comprehensive diagnosis

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

DIAGNOSE Me??????????? Like wtf. Go to a fucken doctor amd get your damn gold stars you literal P.O.S

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago

Am I dying??? How disgusting. People ARE ACTUALLY DYING! BIRDSHIT......

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Just wow! She needs those DMs to come in so she feels loved and can latch onto another health trauma. She is needy and desperate and got herself all dolled up to post. I’m sure she’s talked about this thing non-stop and her Mommy has looked at it but, God forbid, don’t make a doctor’s appointment. It’s a much better idea to seek advice from a bunch of bots!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Wouldn’t her know it all husband have a diagnosis for her? I’m sure he chimed in with his expertise 5 days ago. I would love to see her ravaged by bed bugs from her travels but I don’t think that’s it 😆

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago

I’d PAY TO SEE THAT. Or for her to get lice in that corn broom weave 🙏🏼

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

Hysterical! Ravaged by bed bugs would be perfect and the whole house is infested since she leaves her unpacked luggage all over the house

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago

Such a smug, self-important face.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

Imagine asking your Instagram followers to diagnose you 🤪 I’ve never seen someone so desperate for attention

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Love how quiet she’s been since she announced it was a bug bite, clearly fishing for messages asking that she’s still alive from her traumatic bug bite.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

Oh she was out. Running her mouth during this guys speech. She was completely ignored. So awkward standing there adjusting her dress.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Never at home with her family but always makes sure to show “pump up the jam” mornings like she’s such a great present mom. Thinks she’s so cool now with her reality tv friends that’ll want nothing to do with her once the show airs.

She was sooooo awkward standing there, how does she function in life. Yet still had to try and make it all about her.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

It’s so embarassing watching her function

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Why is she so fucking repetitive with every single thing she does? Her mouth movements pissed me off 😆 Also I would throat punch someone blasting music that loud 1st thing in the morning 😅

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago

It’s truly the last thing children need is chaos before school and looking at an asshat sipping coffee like she’s so slick!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Like do we really need to see this pump up the jam crap every day? We get it, you’re a mom for 5 minutes! Although she isn’t even being a mom, because once again she’s just plopping the kid infront of a screen. She isn’t partaking in the dance party or anything, just filming as always.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You’d think she was doing something fun with her daughter but it’s really just a daily content opportunity - just like when she used to start ever single day sharing L’s outfit.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Right? I’m sorry but putting a song on the TV and sitting there watching her isn’t anything great or post worthy. She couldn’t try less.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago

I'd lose my mind hearing that first thing in the morning

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

🍋couldn’t run out the door fast enough to get away from her this morning 😂

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

She's had a taste of freedom and the real world. Peace out cosplay mom

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago

Love this for her

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

How is she so awkward after all the times she has been on stage?! Is it because these people seem to have natural charisma, and she can't handle it? Or because she knows she is going to look bigger than the size 2 she was earlier? I honestly believe she feels very awkward around the LGBTQ+ crowd because they allow themselves to be authentic to themselves, despite people being homophobes or them being marginalized. She could never ever ever and she knows it.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I agree, why do you think if she clung onto them whiling filming the show they have accepted her? Do they know she’s afraid to use her platform form to stand up for them? That she plucks members of the 2SLGBTQ+ community to give the appearance of her acceptance and support?! But only what’s palatable?

Do these other cast members feel sorry for her? Were they more welcoming because she looked left out and couldn’t fit in?

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago

These new friends of hers are nothing more than a means to an end for her. She is grasping at any new audience she can, and now it's the LGBTQ+ community, apparently. The thing is, when you live authentically, you spot those that don't. I'm guessing her friends might be just as fame hungry as her and assume she has more clout than she does because of her inflated numbers.

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

Yes!! She knew she was headed to a show so she needed a few props before this appearance. So sad!!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

Agreed. I mentioned about her growing her LGBTQ circle on the reddit page, it seems very calculated to me but she is also sooo awkward around them and tries way too hard to pretend she’s in with them.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

Ofcourse she says.... I love you so much. Such a pick me.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

Wow, she's the personification of confidence on stage. She looks bigger than in her IG video. Hmmm..

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

Oooo lol. Look at that face

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

She was fine and alive. Looking awkward and uncomfortable at a drag show.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

😆 saw your comment after I wrote mine. She’s such a clown.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Great minds! Somehow, only the video of her was grainy and blurry. Every other video was in 4k quality.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

And she brought someone with her to make that video of her growing up on stage. Clinging to the hope that Traitors somehow springboards her career.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It’s possible that I’m moving to Guelph in the near future and would love to clock her in that smug face at the Stone Road mall or Homesense 😇

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’m leaving Guelph next week and I’m upset I never go the chance to see that smug mug in person lol

[–] No_really_why@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Good luck with the move! Not easy with a little one!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago

Thank you I need it!! And you’re right, all the plans revolving around the move have to include “what will we do with the baby” haha