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Just went through a break up with someone i love very much any advice on how to stop the pain. It hurts. (hexbear.net)

submitted 2 months ago by Pastthedysphoria@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

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Its been a long time since i felt heartache this bad.

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[–] Ericthescruffy@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Big piece of advice I would give is: pick up a new hobby. If you still enjoy your old/current hobby that's fine but during heartbreaks/breakups I found myself spiraling lot because they were fun things I did either with them or at least while we were together.

New hobbies necessitate new neural pathways which is a big help in getting shit off your mind.

[–] hollowmines@hexbear.net 4 points 2 months ago

gonna second this - simply doing stuff plus time is the only way anything like this gets "better" ime