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I don’t know where to put this.

I’m a bicurious/hetero young white woman with Christian white parents. My dad found out I support gay rights despite identifying as straight. He didn’t really like that I have a Hispanic fiancé (he was okay with it, but he was like “you could do better, come on.”)

He called me a “leftist lib” because I support interracial marriages, gay marriages, trans rights, etc. How can you use supporting these things an insult though??

I also really want acceptance as someone who is neurodivergent and has seen neurodivergent people and minorities be bullied/discriminated against and also has been bullied themself.

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[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 4 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (2 children)

He thinks everything not supporting his “side” is fake and left-wing propaganda. I dated someone like that, actually. Didn’t go well but they became very leftist.

[–] entwine413@lemm.ee 9 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Your dad is a member of a cult. It's fully possible that he'll never change.

One thing to remember is that you have absolutely no obligation to keep family members in your life. I haven't spoken to my father since Trump won the election.

[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 4 points 6 hours ago

I’ve not spoken to him since he moved to a hotel

[–] pdxfed@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

Yeah, it's super important for systems that are irrational or benefit some groups more than others, to discourage education, questioning, and substantive debate; they know they would lose. Most religions are like this.