Comic Strips
Comic Strips is a community for those who love comic stories.
Rules
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π Be Nice!
- Treat others with respect and dignity. Friendly banter is okay, as long as it is mutual; keyword: friendly.
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ποΈ Community Standards
- Comics should be a full story, from start to finish, in one post.
- Posts should be safe and enjoyable by the majority of community members, both here on lemmy.world and other instances.
- Any comic that would qualify as raunchy, lewd, or otherwise draw unwanted attention by nosy coworkers, spouses, or family members should be tagged as NSFW.
- Moderators have final say on what and what does not qualify as appropriate. Use common sense, and if need be, err on the side of caution.
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𧬠Keep it Real
- Comics should be made and posted by real human beans, not by automated means like bots or AI. This is not the community for that sort of thing.
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π½οΈ Credit Where Credit is Due
- Comics should include the original attribution to the artist(s) involved, and be unmodified. Bonus points if you include a link back to their website. When in doubt, use a reverse image search to try to find the original version. Repeat offenders will have their posts removed, be temporarily banned from posting, or if all else fails, be permanently banned from posting.
- Attributions include, but are not limited to, watermarks, links, or other text or imagery that artists add to their comics to use for identification purposes. If you find a comic without any such markings, it would be a good idea to see if you can find an original version. If one cannot be found, say so and ask the community for help!
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π Post Formatting
- Post an image, gallery, or link to a specific comic hosted on another site; e.g., the author's website.
- Meta posts about the community should be tagged with [Meta] either at the beginning or the end of the post title.
- When linking to a comic hosted on another site, ensure the link is to the comic itself and not just to the website; e.g.,
β Correct: https://xkcd.com/386/
β Incorrect: https://xkcd.com/
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π¬ Post Frequency/SPAM
- Each user (regardless of instance) may post up to five (5 π) comics a day. This can be any combination of personal comics you have written yourself, or other author's comics. Any comics exceeding five (5 π) will be removed.
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π΄ββ οΈ Internationalization (i18n)
- Non-English posts are welcome. Please tag the post title with the original language, and include an English translation in the body of the post; e.g.,
SΓ, por favor [Spanish/EspaΓ±ol]
- Non-English posts are welcome. Please tag the post title with the original language, and include an English translation in the body of the post; e.g.,
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πΏ Moderation
- We are human, just like most everybody else on Lemmy. If you feel a moderation decision was made in error, you are welcome to reach out to anybody on the moderation team for clarification. Keep in mind that moderation decisions may be final.
- When reporting posts and/or comments, quote which rule is being broken, and why you feel it broke the rules.
Banned Artists
The following artists are banned from the community.
- Jago
- Stonetoss
It should be noted that when you make reports, it is your responsibility to provide rational reasoning why something should be removed. Saying it simply breaks community rules is not always good enough.
Web Accessibility
Note: This is not a rule, but a helpful suggestion.
When posting images, you should strive to add alt-text for screen readers to use to describe the image you're posting:
Another helpful thing to do is to provide a transcription of the text in your images, as well as brief descriptions of what's going on. (example)
Web of Links
- !linuxmemes@lemmy.world: "I use Arch btw"
- !memes@lemmy.world: memes (you don't say!)
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Tone of voice makes a difference. The scarf and especially the bag aren't associated with body parts, which is better when it's a man to women. He should compliment men as well. As a woman, I can say "Cute shoes!" without coming off fetishy, might not be so easy for a guy. Also, guy to guy, "wow, looks like you could run so fast in those shoes!" could be nice and funny, but frightening guy-to-girl. Sadly, a young woman can hardly compliment a young man without risking him hearing "I will fuck you" instead of whatever she really said. And being angry because she "led him on." But now I'm old, I can. Still keeping it uncreepy of course, because most young guys don't want to feel leered at by saggy old ladies. Always keep the power/age/gender dynamic in mind and imagine being the other before opening your mouth.
As a guy who is diagnosed ADHD+Learning Disability+"doesn't pick up social cues" (idk what that one is called but I remember that shrink saying it), this minefield is why I do not talk to women I do not know, I'm not a good eggshell walker. Yes it's because I'm a diagnosed idiot, but that doesn't mean I'm bad.
For all the men in my (or similar) position, women who read this, I implore you, start asking men out you're interested in instead of dropping hints we don't get. We cannot ask you out in public acceptably outside of the bar and online even if we do pick up on the hints, some of us don't even do facebook much less ChickenTinder and bars are conducive to hookups not lasting relationships so who cares? I don't need a hookup, I have a hand, my hand can't provide loving companionship. Conversely you can hit on us ANYWHERE. We're very receptive, even if we aren't interested we won't call you a creep or report you to HR so long as you take no for an answer which I feel we can all agree is reasonable, I took no for an answer just fine for years until it became "just don't ask them out ever, you have to get on tinder" which again I refuse.
Alright well that'll never happen, but at least I got it out lol. Now back to dying alone with my cats and fiddling with radios and attempting to sink into nature (once it warms up here soon anyway).
With cats isn't alone. Also cats might be your "in" depending on the woman, and you don't want any woman who doesn't like cats anyway. You can probably think of a few things you can say (or ask) about your cats to the women you know at work, it's a safe topic that also says reassuring things about you. Even share a few pics of their antics, checking the backgrounds beforehand to be sure there's nothing you would have put away if they were coming over. Obviously it's just a start, but good companions start as friends.
Well of course cat pics are inescapable lol (except I don't post em online because background, but irl people can see it, there's nothing bad it's just identifying.)
Though work isn't the place for me to look, it's all married couples and olds (I am an old but I mean like 2x my age, not exactly looking for someone my dad went to school with y'know?) And I can't just be all "hey cute lady at the store you wanna see a pic of my cat doing cute shit? Here come back to my house and pet her!" That's worse than "hey I think you seem neat wanna go get some coffee and see whats up?" lol. I'll get the cops called on me that way! No, it's much safer to just say "hey how's it going" and keep on with my day, I'm told no women want to be asked out in public, and I don't want to be labeled a creep at some place I regularly patronise for asking someone out for coffee, so I'll just keep my thoughts to myself.
Oh I am the exact same! I cannot even talk to women I know. Tbh, it feels like many people implicitly thinks I am a creep. So sad that I likely cannot escape this fate..
I feel you, like, I don't feel like people think I'm creepy in conversation, but then I'm told that due to my gender I am automatically creepy just because other guys are, and I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable just for asking for a coffee date to get to know each other if she's so inclined.
The solution to me is clear, watch King of the Hill again and make a frozen pizza.