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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by eatmyass@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

I'll go first - those dudes who go out to nightlife areas to ask women extremely sexual questions on camera

cw: predatory anal sex

Hey..hey, so what's your name?

Katyyy..........?

Ok..ok..so..so...you having fun out here tonight Katy?

yeahhh..........?

Ok..ok..so..that's what's up...so...so...would you ever let me stick it in your ass?

uh......what?

And then the dude looks at the camera with some look like "damn, did you see that, that was epic," when to any regular person the whole thing was extremely awkward and the girl was clearly uncomfortable the whole time. I guess there's a lot of overlap with the PUA scene, but one of those videos popped up in my recommended and I thought damn, of all the shitty guys out there, those are some of the worst.

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[-] Nagarjuna@hexbear.net 26 points 1 year ago

I'm gonna be real, LSD helped me empathize, but not because I realized other people are just like me. I knew that.

It was because it helped me think in different ways, where I was recognizing different patterns than usual, and became more interested in plants, bugs, that kind of stuff.

It gave me a wider pool of experiences to draw on when empathizing. Now, when someone is stoked about a pretty plant or a bird or something instead of imagining what it would be like to be excited about it and empathizing from there, I can take a shortcut and draw straight from my experience being excited about that kind of stuff.

[-] Othello@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago

im glad its helped you in that way. It helps me be less anxious about things that dont really matter that much. like why do i care if my father disapproves of me? i disapprove of him!

[-] Nagarjuna@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago

I'm so glad you got there. That dude sounds like he doesn't know what he's talking about, you seem legit.

[-] Othello@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago
[-] kugupu@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

Yeah I mean I don't think most people mean they unlocked empathy or something. You can know something your whole life but experience that feeling in a new way. Like if someone was in a near death incident and they said something to me like they feel really alive, I wouldn't be like "no duh."

Anyways I get a lot of people online who talk about psychedelics are rogan listeners so yeah not a fan of those

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